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		<title>Scaling Down (Almost) Painlessly</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Moving to a smaller house or apartment in a retirement community almost always involves a certain degree of trauma, both for the elder who's moving and for family members. However, by planning ahead you can reduce the discomfort involved and turn what might well become a nightmare into a pleasant event.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Moving to a smaller house or apartment in a retirement community almost always involves a certain degree of trauma, both for the elder who&#8217;s moving and for family members. However, by planning ahead you can reduce the discomfort involved and turn what might well become a nightmare into a pleasant event.</p>
<p>Begin by Planning for the Move</p>
<p>Where is the elder moving? Go to the actual house or apartment with tape measure, pad and pencil and write down measurements. Floor space is important, but don&#8217;t forget about ceilings. Many elders own large pieces of furniture that may not fit into rooms with low ceilings. Your work here will determine which pieces can move with your elder.</p>
<p>And while you&#8217;re at the actual location, talk to several other elders who already live there. What is their life style? Do they go outside the property on frequent trips? How do they dress? Casual lifestyles will require an entirely different style of dress than more formal ones.</p>
<p>Gather Supplies and Contact Helpers</p>
<p>Having all the supplies you will need in one place will speed your task. You&#8217;ll want a number of storage bins; five or six should be sufficient to hold sorted items. Plastic bags can be used for discarded belongings and as a container for articles to be donated to charities. Packing boxes and supplies such as padding materials and wide sealing tape are must-haves. Labels and dark marking pens are essential to ensure that boxes go to their intended location.</p>
<p>While you&#8217;re in the gathering stage, begin to contact helpers you&#8217;ll need. Among these may be:</p>
<ul>
<p>
<li>estate sale professionals</p>
<p>
<li>certified appraisers</p>
<p>
<li>moving companies</p>
<p>
<li>house cleaners</p>
<p>
<li>repair specialists (electricians, plumbers, carpenters, painters)</p>
</ul>
<p>Ask friends, relatives, and senior real estate specialists for recommendations. Also, check with the Better Business Bureau to ascertain whether problems have been reported about particular companies or individuals.</p>
<p>Approach Your Task One Room at a Time</p>
<p>Who should help? The elder and one family member should assume responsibility for sorting all items and some packing. Do not include everyone in the family if you want to make the job quick and easy because distractions increase in geometric proportion to the number of persons doing the sorting.</p>
<p>Sort all the items in one single room at once, beginning and ending in the kitchen. Why start there? Because kitchens in small houses and apartments typically are short on storage space, and the elder needs time and experience to determine which items are true necessities, and which may never be used. If you reduce kitchen items to a bare minimum at the beginning, your elder can determine what&#8217;s needed and what&#8217;s not by living with them ahead of time. After living with fewer items, your elder may find that items once thought essential may not be needed. Complete work in the kitchen at the very end of your tasks.</p>
<p>Even though you intend to stay in only one room, distractions will occur. Resist them by stacking items that belong in another room at the door. A bin or box placed just inside the door can contain all the items that have homes elsewhere.</p>
<p>Make your motto One Thing at a Time; One Time for each Thing. Once you&#8217;ve picked up an item, decide then and there what its fate should be. Place it in one of the bins you&#8217;ve labeled:</p>
<ul>
<p>
<li>Discards</p>
<p>
<li>Donations</p>
<p>
<li>Distribution to Relatives</p>
<p>
<li>Keepers</p>
<p>
<li>Uncertainties</p>
</ul>
<p>Large collections of books may require their own bins. You might have bins for Collectors&#8217; editions, books to be stored, books to be sold to book dealers.</p>
<p>When you have finished categorizing all the items in the room, start the packing process. Items in the Uncertainties bin can be packed for storage.</p>
<p>If an unbreakable item is to be moved only a short distance, don&#8217;t waste time on elaborate packing and padding. Items like crystal and china, however, require excellent packing, regardless of the distance they will be moved. If you can&#8217;t do a great job, leave packing fragile items to professionals.</p>
<p>Mark boxes as you go.</p>
<p>Mark boxes as you go.</p>
<p>Mark boxes as you go.</p>
<p>Nothing is more frustrating than finding that you&#8217;ve shipped your elder&#8217;s bed linens to Aunt Minnie and kept a silver salver you meant to send your nephew.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t try to do everything at once. Do only one room on any given day, and take the time to enjoy reminiscing as you sort items.</p>
<p>This is also the perfect time to have a certified appraiser come in to appraise items that may be of significant value. Very expensive items may be auctioned at an auction house such as Christy&#8217;s or Sotheby&#8217;s. Less expensive items can be sold to local antiques dealers. By having an idea of their value before going to dealers, you reduce the chance that dealers can scam you.</p>
<p>You could also consider selling items through an on-line auction. If you do so, remember that you will be responsible for shipping items and ensuring their condition to successful bidders.</p>
<p>Distribute Items to the Intended Recipients</p>
<p>Schedule a single day for distribution of items. In-town relatives can come to pick up items intended for them; they may also be helpful by taking bags to charities, books to resellers, boxes to storage, and trash to dumps.</p>
<p>Use this day for shipping as well. Small items can be shipped via UPS or FedEx; large pieces of furniture and antiques may require special handling by movers. Once you&#8217;ve finished distribution, you should have a considerably reduced pile of boxes and furniture. These boxes should contain only items to be moved to the elder&#8217;s new residence or to storage. Remaining items should be those to be sold in an estate sale.</p>
<p>Move the Elder to His New Residence</p>
<p>Will the mover actually show up on time? Will the mover actually show up at all? Increase the probability of a good outcome for the move by contacting the mover to confirm arrangement a week ahead and the day before the actual move is scheduled. Of course, missed appointments may still occur, but if you&#8217;ve checked out the company with the Better Business Bureau and reminded the company of your appointment, the chances are good that the move will go as planned.</p>
<p>Accompany your elder to his new residence and help him with the moving-in process. Even if not all boxes can be emptied in a single day, he will feel more comfortable if a few items that are meaningful to him are unpacked and placed where he can find them.</p>
<p>Hold an Estate Sale</p>
<p>Once the movers have left the premises, the estate sale professionals should come in to evaluate and price items for the estate sale. Give them a key to the house, and then get out of their way. If you have chosen well, these professionals can do a great job of pricing items to sell and clearing the house of whatever remains. They will take a percentage of the sale receipts as compensation.</p>
<p>The days of the sale are good days to keep your elder busy elsewhere. A tearful elder does nothing to help sales.</p>
<p>Schedule a professional cleaning service to clean the house once the estate sale is over. When that has been completed to your satisfaction, turn the keys over to your senior real estate professional and give yourself a big pat on the back. You&#8217;re done!</p>
<p>Click here for a checklist to help you through this process. Or copy this address into your browser address bar.</p>
<p>http://www.thebestisyet.net/cgi-bin/cgiwrap/pando19/start.cgi/movechecklist.htm&#8221;   target=&#8221;_new</p>
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		<title>Why Everyone Over 50 Should be Training for the Senior Games</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Oct 2010 20:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Phil Campbell, M.S.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>by Phil Campbell, M.S., M.A., FACHE<br />Senior Games participant and author of <br />Ready, Set, GO! Synergy Fitness &#8211; 2nd Edition</p>
<p>New biomedical research proves why everyone over age 50 should be training for the Senior Games.</p>
<p>Research discoveries in 2002 show that we can unleash the most powerful body fat-cutting, muscle-toning, anti-aging substance known to science, naturally, with specific types of exercise, and the workouts necessary in training for many of the Senior Games events do the job.</p>
<p>The American Heart Association recently cited research showing that high-intensity exercise can significantly lower the risk of heart disease. Simply, as exercise intensity goes up, the risk of heart disease goes down.</p>
<p>The researchers compared the impact of different levels of exercise intensity on men with an average age of 66. The subjects in the high-intensity exercise group produced a 31 percent risk reduction for heart disease, which was 14 percent better than those who performed less intense exercise.</p>
<p>&#8220;The harder one exercises &#8230; the lower the risk of heart disease,&#8221; says lead researcher Dr. I-Min Lee, associate professor Harvard Medical School.</p>
<p>Anti-aging exercise</p>
<p>Anaerobic exercise (as contrasted with aerobic exercise) involves short, high-intensity sprint training, rather than endurance training.</p>
<p>Researchers show that high-intensity anaerobic workouts that include the short-burst get-you-out-of-breath sprinting types of exercise make your body release significant amounts of growth hormone (Impact of acute exercise intensity on pulsatile growth hormone release in men, 2000, Pritzlaff).</p>
<p>As children, growth hormone (HGH) makes us grow taller, but when we reach our full height, this hormone actually changes roles. When we&#8217;re adults, increasing HGH reduces body fat and trims inches. Growth hormone actually becomes the &quot;fitness hormone&quot; for middle-aged and older adults.</p>
<p>New studies show that HGH can be increased by as much as 530 percent with the anaerobic exercise of sprinting, (The time course of the human growth hormone response to a 6s and a 30s cycle ergometer sprint, 2002, Stokes).</p>
<p>Anaerobic sprint workouts can be involve many sports, including running, swimming, cycling, cross-country skiing, and all these are Senior Games events.</p>
<p>Whatever you do, don&#8217;t do this!</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t jump in, ease in to anaerobic exercise. Anaerobic fitness training is clearly the most productive, but it&#8217;s also the most dangerous. Hamstring pulls are a painful potential injury, so flexibility training is essential to every fitness plan.</p>
<p>Everyone, especially those with heart conditions or medical problems, should get physician clearance before performing anaerobic exercise. Even young athletes should progressively ease into high-intensity anaerobic workouts.</p>
<p>Older adults get results with less effort</p>
<p>When you see an 80-year-old participant running a 10-K or working out in the gym, don&#8217;t think that it&#8217;s unfortunate that she can&#8217;t run as fast or lift as much as her 60-year-old counterparts. It&#8217;s easier for her to reach higher intensities.</p>
<p>The American Heart Association study proves that exercise intensity is relative to a person&#8217;s age and fitness level. In other words, an older person can reach high-intensity levels with an effort level that might be considered low-intensity for a young athlete.</p>
<p>The new study confirms the need for higher intensities, but it also shows that beginners and older adults reach the more productive levels of exercise intensity with less effort than a triathlete, for example.</p>
<p>Newcomers to high-intensity exercise may initially get great results by performing the anaerobic training with power walking, but a fine-tuned triathlete may need more work for the same results.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re over age 50, get physician clearance first, select a Senior Games event or two and get started with a gradual buildup training program.</p>
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<p>RESEARCH SUMMARIES CITED:</p>
<p>The American Heart Association Releasehttp://www.americanheart.org/presenter.jhtml?identifier=3008814  </p>
<p>National Library of Medicine:</p>
<p>&quot;the GH secretory response to exercise is related to exercise intensity in a linear dose-response pattern.&quot;http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&#038;db=PubMed&#038;list_uids=11960957&#038;dopt=Abstract</p>
<p>&quot;It would appear that the duration of a bout of maximal sprint exercise determines the magnitude of the HGH&quot; response?&quot; http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&#038;db=PubMed&#038;list_uids=12137178&#038;dopt=Abstract </p>
<p>&quot;GH secretory response to exercise is related to exercise intensity&quot; http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&#038;db=PubMed&#038;list_uids=10444604&#038;dopt=Abstract </p>
<p>Additional support studies:</p>
<p>&quot;We conclude that a positive relationship exists between exercise intensity and both CHO(carbohydrates) expenditure during exercise and fat expenditure during recovery and that the increase in fat expenditure during recovery with higher exercise intensities is related to GH release.&quot; http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&#038;db=PubMed&#038;list_uids=10956336&#038;dopt=Abstract</p>
<p>&quot;GH accelerates body fat loss, exerts anabolic effects and improves GH secretion.&quot; http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&#038;db=PubMed&#038;list_uids=11706505&#038;dopt=Abstrac</p>
<p>&quot;exercise is a robust stimulus of GH secretion&quot; http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&#038;db=PubMed&#038;list_uids=12457419&#038;dopt=Abstract</p>
<p>&quot;Total carbohydrate oxidation (exercise plus post exercise period) was significantly higher for HIE (high intensity)&quot; http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&#038;db=PubMed&#038;list_uids=9100214&#038;dopt=Abstract </p>
<p>&quot;. A minimum duration of 10 min, high intensity exercise consistently increased circulating GH in adult males.&quot;http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&#038;db=PubMed&#038;list_uids=1619005&#038;dopt=Abstract </p>
<p>If you&#8217;ve seen a fitness magazine lately like Physical Magazine, Fitness RX for Women, Great Life, Muscle Mag, Experience Life, and others, you may have seen Phil Campbell quoted as a fitness expert and an authority on exercise-induced growth hormone. You may have seen him on the cover of Personal Fitness Professional.</p>
<p>Phil Campbell, age 51, holds two advanced degrees, and he is board certified by ACHE. He applies his training in Health Services and his experience in the development of Ready, Set, Go! Synergy Fitness. He spent 20 years in hospital administration where it was his responsibility to take the medical disciplines of surgery, pathology, radiology, pediatrics, physical rehabilitation, physical therapy, pharmacology, and other health disciplines and operationalize diverse medical services into a comprehensive healthcare delivery system that improved the lives of others. And he has taken that same approach in the presentation of information to readers.</p>
<p>Guided by mainstream research</p>
<p>Phil Campbell uses 300 photo-illustrations and cites over 200 mainstream research studies in the biomedical disciplines of endocrinology, exercise science, medicine and fitness training for specific age groups to present a research-supported system that will help improve the lives of others.</p>
<p>He is an expert at taking complex medical subjects and making them understandable and practical. And he shows readers step-by-step how to improve fitness, increase energy, and lose, cut, and tone.</p>
<p>Phil Campbell has a gift for taking complex medical subjects and making them understandable and practical. He shows readers step-by-step how to improve fitness, increase energy, lose, cut, and tone in the most efficient way possible. Phil Campbell wrote his first fitness training manual over 30 years ago. While in college, he managed health clubs and performed personal training &#8230; 20 years before it was called personal training.</p>
<p>His inspiration to help improve the health status of large populations was sparked by his Health Services advanced degree advisor, Dr. Ed Cavanaugh, a former division administrator with the Centers for Disease Control in Atlanta. Mainstream biomedical research is the basis for all of Phil Campbell&#8217;s writing, and over 160 research studies are cited in his book.</p>
<p>As a masters athlete, Phil Campbell holds several USA Track and Field Masters titles including first place in the 100-meter sprint, Southeastern US Championships for his age group in 2000. In 2003, he won the 200-meter sprint and the discus throw, placed second in the 100 meters, and he set the meet record in the javelin during the USA Masters Track &#038; Field Tennessee Championships. Nationally, he has placed third in USA Track and Field Masters Nationals in his age group in the javelin, and fifth in discus. In his late 40s, he won a 40-yard dash competition in 4.69 seconds. He teaches athletes how to improve speed, agility and quickness during his Speed Camps &#8211; http://www.readysetgofitness.com/speed.shtml. He holds a black belt in Isshinryu Karate and has competed and won first place in martial arts and weightlifting competitions.</p>
<p>Thousands of people across the US have been inspired by Phil Campbell&#8217;s motivational presentation &quot;Fitness for a Lifetime.&quot; If you&#8217;ll let him, Phil Campbell will show you how to have the most successful and lasting fitness improvement experience of your life.</p>
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		<title>Solitary Confinement — for Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Sep 2010 12:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sixty-five year old Arthur Jones served a self-imposed life sentence - in his own home.</p><p>Arthur lived in a high crime neighborhood, so he built iron cages around his outside doors and installed bars on all the windows.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sixty-five year old Arthur Jones served a self-imposed life sentence &#8211; in his own home.</p>
<p>Arthur lived in a high crime neighborhood, so he built iron cages around his outside doors and installed bars on all the windows.  No one could find it easy to break in to Arthur&#8217;s house!</p>
<p>I met Arthur a few years ago, although you would hardly call our interaction meeting.  When I arrived to deliver his meal, as part of the Meals-on-Wheels program, Arthur barely cracked open his front door even though his cage clearly protected him. He refused to open the cage door at all, so, to give him his meal, I had to angle the box through the bars.  Without doubt, this maneuver scrambled the hot contents of his boxed meal, but Arthur would have it no other way.  He clearly feared me, a 100-pound woman, and everyone else.</p>
<p>I wish I could say that Arthur&#8217;s family came to his rescue, finding for him the medical and emotional treatment he needed.  I cannot.  Arthur&#8217;s depression and paranoia compounded relentlessly, killing him at far too young an age.</p>
<p>Many elders live like Arthur, holed up in their own homes, barricaded against the world.  Who cares?  Family and friends must care, and they must assume the primary responsibility, acting before their elder&#8217;s condition rivals that of Arthur. We cannot shift this burden to our government.  We cannot wish it away.  Those among us lucky enough to have elders in our lives must shoulder the responsibility of seeing that they do not succumb to depression.</p>
<p>At this holiday season, many elders experience transitory depression, as celebrations bring memories of friends and loved ones who have died.  Decreased hours of sunshine may add to their depressed feelings.  How do you know if your elder suffers from serious depression?  And, if you suspect depression, what you should do?  Here are a few tips.</p>
<p>What signs should lead you to suspect serious depression?</p>
<ul>
<p>
<li>Lethargy and or refusal to get out of bed;</p>
<p>
<li>Changes in Sleep Patterns, such as sleeping all morning</p>
<p>
<li>Unusual Complaints</p>
<p>
<li>Memory loss and loss of ability to concentrate</p>
<p>
<li>Frequent sighs or weeping if unusual for the sufferer</p>
<p>
<li>Feeling fear and loneliness;</p>
<p>
<li>Thoughts of death</p>
<p>
<li>Refusal to eat</p>
<p>
<li>Refusal to take prescribed medications</p>
<p>
<li>Thoughts or talk of suicide (remember, the notion that suicides do not signal their plans is a myth!)</p>
<p>
<li>Significant changes in personality</p>
<p>
<li>Irritability</p>
</ul>
<p>What Can You Do?</p>
<p>A few simple steps may improve their condition rapidly:</p>
<ul>
<p>
<li>Call more often than usual.</p>
<p>
<li>Take your elder for outings away from the house.</p>
<p>
<li>Schedule a medical appointment to confirm or deny your suspicions, and be the one to take your elder to that appointment.  Depression often accompanies the early stages of Alzheimer&#8217;s disease and other dementias.</p>
<p>
<li>Check bottles to be certain that your elder is actually taking prescribed medications at the recommended dosages.  Too many or too few pills in the bottle can warn you of problems.  If you find evidence that medications are not taken as prescribed, gently probe to see if you can learn why.</p>
<p>
<li>Include the elder in parties and holiday festivities, but keep the duration of their participation at a level they can handle comfortably.</p>
<p>
<li>Drop in more often than usual on homebound elders.</p>
</ul>
<p>You don&#8217;t have to be a doctor or social worker to recognize the signs of depression.  Take action now to protect those who protected you.</p>
<p>About The Author</p>
<p>Phyllis Staff, Ph.D. &#8211; Phyllis Staff is an experimental psychologist and the CEO of The Best Is Yet.Net, an internet company that helps seniors and caregivers find trustworthy residential care. She is the author of How to Find Great Senior Housing: A Roadmap for Elders and Those Who Love Them. She is also the daughter of a victim of Alzheimer&#8217;s disease. Visit the author&#8217;s web site at http://www.thebestisyet.net&#8221; target=&#8221;_new</p>
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		<title>Scaling Down (almost) Painlessly</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 04:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Moving to a smaller house or apartment in a retirement community almost always involves a certain degree of trauma, both for the elder who's moving and for family members. However, by planning ahead you can reduce the discomfort involved and turn what might well become a nightmare into a pleasant event.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Moving to a smaller house or apartment in a retirement community almost always involves a certain degree of trauma, both for the elder who&#8217;s moving and for family members. However, by planning ahead you can reduce the discomfort involved and turn what might well become a nightmare into a pleasant event.</p>
<p>Begin by Planning for the Move</p>
<p>Where is the elder moving? Go to the actual house or apartment with tape measure, pad and pencil and write down measurements. Floor space is important, but don&#8217;t forget about ceilings. Many elders own large pieces of furniture that may not fit into rooms with low ceilings. Your work here will determine which pieces can move with your elder.</p>
<p>And while you&#8217;re at the actual location, talk to several other elders who already live there. What is their life style? Do they go outside the property on frequent trips? How do they dress? Casual lifestyles will require an entirely different style of dress than more formal ones.</p>
<p>Gather Supplies and Contact Helpers</p>
<p>Having all the supplies you will need in one place will speed your task. You&#8217;ll want a number of storage bins; five or six should be sufficient to hold sorted items. Plastic bags can be used for discarded belongings and as a container for articles to be donated to charities. Packing boxes and supplies such as padding materials and wide sealing tape are must-haves. Labels and dark marking pens are essential to ensure that boxes go to their intended location.</p>
<p>While you&#8217;re in the gathering stage, begin to contact helpers you&#8217;ll need. Among these may be:</p>
<ul>
<p>
<li>estate sale professionals</p>
<p>
<li>certified appraisers</p>
<p>
<li>moving companies</p>
<p>
<li>house cleaners</p>
<p>
<li>repair specialists (electricians, plumbers, carpenters, painters)</p>
</ul>
<p>Ask friends, relatives, and senior real estate specialists for recommendations. Also, check with the Better Business Bureau to ascertain whether problems have been reported about particular companies or individuals.</p>
<p>Approach Your Task One Room at a Time</p>
<p>Who should help? The elder and one family member should assume responsibility for sorting all items and some packing. Do not include everyone in the family if you want to make the job quick and easy because distractions increase in geometric proportion to the number of persons doing the sorting.</p>
<p>Sort all the items in one single room at once, beginning and ending in the kitchen. Why start there? Because kitchens in small houses and apartments typically are short on storage space, and the elder needs time and experience to determine which items are true necessities, and which may never be used. If you reduce kitchen items to a bare minimum at the beginning, your elder can determine what&#8217;s needed and what&#8217;s not by living with them ahead of time. After living with fewer items, your elder may find that items once thought essential may not be needed. Complete work in the kitchen at the very end of your tasks.</p>
<p>Even though you intend to stay in only one room, distractions will occur. Resist them by stacking items that belong in another room at the door. A bin or box placed just inside the door can contain all the items that have homes elsewhere.</p>
<p>Make your motto One Thing at a Time; One Time for each Thing. Once you&#8217;ve picked up an item, decide then and there what its fate should be. Place it in one of the bins you&#8217;ve labeled:</p>
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<li>Discards</p>
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<li>Donations</p>
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<li>Distribution to Relatives</p>
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<li>Keepers</p>
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<li>Uncertainties</p>
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<li>Large collections of books may require their own bins. You might have bins for Collectors&#8217; editions, books to be stored, books to be sold to book dealers.</p>
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<p>When you have finished categorizing all the items in the room, start the packing process. Items in the Uncertainties bin can be packed for storage.</p>
<p>If an unbreakable item is to be moved only a short distance, don&#8217;t waste time on elaborate packing and padding. Items like crystal and china, however, require excellent packing, regardless of the distance they will be moved. If you can&#8217;t do a great job, leave packing fragile items to professionals.</p>
<p>Mark boxes as you go.</p>
<p>Mark boxes as you go.</p>
<p>Mark boxes as you go.</p>
<p>Nothing is more frustrating than finding that you&#8217;ve shipped your elder&#8217;s bed linens to Aunt Minnie and kept a silver salver you meant to send your nephew.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t try to do everything at once. Do only one room on any given day, and take the time to enjoy reminiscing as you sort items.</p>
<p>This is also the perfect time to have a certified appraiser come in to appraise items that may be of significant value. Very expensive items may be auctioned at an auction house such as Christy&#8217;s or Sotheby&#8217;s. Less expensive items can be sold to local antiques dealers. By having an idea of their value before going to dealers, you reduce the chance that dealers can scam you.</p>
<p>You could also consider selling items through an on-line auction. If you do so, remember that you will be responsible for shipping items and ensuring their condition to successful bidders.</p>
<p>Distribute Items to the Intended Recipients</p>
<p>Schedule a single day for distribution of items. In-town relatives can come to pick up items intended for them; they may also be helpful by taking bags to charities, books to resellers, boxes to storage, and trash to dumps.</p>
<p>Use this day for shipping as well. Small items can be shipped via UPS or FedEx; large pieces of furniture and antiques may require special handling by movers. Once you&#8217;ve finished distribution, you should have a considerably reduced pile of boxes and furniture. These boxes should contain only items to be moved to the elder&#8217;s new residence or to storage. Remaining items should be those to be sold in an estate sale.</p>
<p>Move the Elder to His New Residence</p>
<p>Will the mover actually show up on time? Will the mover actually show up at all? Increase the probability of a good outcome for the move by contacting the mover to confirm arrangement a week ahead and the day before the actual move is scheduled. Of course, missed appointments may still occur, but if you&#8217;ve checked out the company with the Better Business Bureau and reminded the company of your appointment, the chances are good that the move will go as planned.</p>
<p>Accompany your elder to his new residence and help him with the moving-in process. Even if not all boxes can be emptied in a single day, he will feel more comfortable if a few items that are meaningful to him are unpacked and placed where he can find them.</p>
<p>Hold an Estate Sale</p>
<p>Once the movers have left the premises, the estate sale professionals should come in to evaluate and price items for the estate sale. Give them a key to the house, and then get out of their way. If you have chosen well, these professionals can do a great job of pricing items to sell and clearing the house of whatever remains. They will take a percentage of the sale receipts as compensation.</p>
<p>The days of the sale are good days to keep your elder busy elsewhere. A tearful elder does nothing to help sales.</p>
<p>Schedule a professional cleaning service to clean the house once the estate sale is over. When that has been completed to your satisfaction, turn the keys over to your senior real estate professional and give yourself a big pat on the back. You&#8217;re done!</p>
<p>Click here for a checklist to help you through this process. Or copy this address into your browser address bar.<br />http://www.thebestisyet.net/cgi-bin/cgiwrap/pando19/start.cgi/movechecklist.htm&#8221;   target=&#8221;_new</p>
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		<title>The Golden Years</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[1) What does Adrian Mitchell say we do to people when their working lives are over?</p><p>Adrian says that &#34;when a man's too ill to work we punish him&#34;, rob him of half his income or replace it with &#34;pocket money&#34; and or place him in a retirement home to sit out the remainder of his live in isolation.</p><p>2) What does he think about this?</p><p>Adrian thinks that &#34;the old people are being robbed&#34; and says &#34;to hell with retiring&#34; he believes that the way that deal with old people (to have your ability to sport yourself removed and then being given &#34;pocket money&#34;).]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1) What does Adrian Mitchell say we do to people when their working lives are over?</p>
<p>Adrian says that &quot;when a man&#8217;s too ill to work we punish him&quot;, rob him of half his income or replace it with &quot;pocket money&quot; and or place him in a retirement home to sit out the remainder of his live in isolation.</p>
<p>2) What does he think about this?</p>
<p>Adrian thinks that &quot;the old people are being robbed&quot; and says &quot;to hell with retiring&quot; he believes that the way that deal with old people (to have your ability to sport yourself removed and then being given &quot;pocket money&quot;). is an insult; He thinks that this is backboards, that the retired should have more money that before retirement.</p>
<p>3) Describe the impression he gives of retirement homes?</p>
<p>In the image of the text, a retirement home is a &quot;basement&quot;, a dilapidated old building with &quot;fungus&quot; growing up the walls.</p>
<p>Nothing happens or ever moves &quot;except the raught and the light and darkgrey figures&quot; and the cat. A place where the &quot;food&quot; is so bad that an animal would reject it, a place where what is not dead is waiting to die, if not from the effects of time, but from the lack of stimulation.</p>
<p>3) How would he treat old people?</p>
<p>Adrian would give the retired &quot;the freedom they always heard about&quot;, give them the money to live out the remainder of there lives in comfit and dignity.</p>
<p>4) The poet uses exaggeration to make his point. Find a couple of places where he does this and describe the effects it has.</p>
<p>[1] The description of the food available in retirement homes &quot;the meat tastes of feet&quot;.</p>
<p>[2] The description of the type of activities that we should offer the retired &quot;Print her a ticket to the universe, let her slum-white skin be tanned by a dozen different planets&quot;</p>
<p>Such exaggerations like the above, make the text more interesting to read as apposed to using factual arrangement alone, give the text more substance as they offer the rearer points of reference to which they can relate to.</p>
<p>They also draw attention to the opinions of the writer (the food being bad and that the retired should be given the means to do as they please), being out of content in relation to the waiting they stand out.</p>
<p>I am the website administrator of the Wandle industrial museum (http://www.wandle.org). Established in 1983 by local people determined to ensure that the history of the valley was no longer neglected but enhanced awareness its heritage for the use and benefits of the community.</p>
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		<title>Retiring Abroad and Leaving the Grey Skies of the UK</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Retiring abroad needs careful planning. Not all countries have the same entitlement to benefits as the UK and your tax liability may be affected.UK nationals have the right to retire in any European Economic Area (EEA) country. If you intend to move to any other country, you should speak first to the British Consul in that country and its foreign consulate here in the UK.</p>
<p>If you are planning to retire abroad, here are some things to consider: Calculate your retirement income.</p>
<p>Contact the Retirement Pension Forecasting and Advice Unit (RPFA) for a state pension forecast. If you are living abroad then the Inland Revenue can help. Entitlements can vary according to the country of residence Ask the Inland Revenue for information about tax liability on any income over the UK personal allowance. The amount of UK tax you will have to pay from abroad can vary depending on where you decide to live. Seek independent tax advice about any benefits to you held in offshore banking, as this could reduce your tax liability depending on where you plan to live.</p>
<p>Find out about welfare rights abroad.</p>
<p>Some UK benefits are not payable outside the UK, others apply only in the EU or in countries which have agreements with the UK Inform your social security office or Jobcentre Plus, the Inland Revenue National Insurance Contributions Office (International Services) and the Department for Work and Pensions when you move and provide your contact details abroad. You should also tell them if you change address again or return to the UK Find out about health care costs in the country you want to retire to. The Department for Work and Pensions will be able to advice on your rights in EU countries.</p>
<p>Taking care of your health, the most important aspect of preparing to live abroad</p>
<p>Health Care Abroad: There is nothing more important than your health so it is essential that you plan for any eventualities that may occur whilst living abroad. The UK government strongly advises that you take out health insurance to cover private medical and dental treatment, as well as medical repatriation.</p>
<p>Keeping your home in the UK</p>
<p>If you are decide to keep your property in the UK and it is going to be empty or rented out, you will need to let your local council know, and you will also need to look at how the property can be kept secure while you are away.</p>
<p>Contact your local council. The council tax department and the electoral registration unit will need to know when you are planning to move and a forwarding address</p>
<p>The Bills</p>
<p>Notify your utility companies that you are moving in order to get your final bills and provide a forwarding address for them to send you any outstanding payments or refunds tell your bank, building society or any financial institution that you have a policy or agreement with that you are moving abroad have your mail forwarded by asking for a redirection form from the Post Office.</p>
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